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To Be With You: The Solo Where a Shred God Chooses to Just Be Tasteful

The fastest guitarist alive picks up his slowest, most singable weapon.

Here is Paul Gilbert, a man who can alternate-pick 16th notes fast enough to set kitchen timers off in the next building, and what does he do on the biggest hit of his career? He plays slowly. On purpose. It is the guitar equivalent of a Formula 1 driver parallel-parking beautifully, and honestly it might be the flex.

This 30-second clip is his solo over Mr. Big's To Be With You, the 1991 acoustic power ballad that lived on every radio station and every awkward slow dance. No shredding, no fireworks, just a short, singing lead that says more with a handful of bends than most solos say in a minute. PDF and Guitar Pro are below.

How Paul Gilbert's To Be With You solo works

The whole thing lives in E major pentatonic, and its secret is that Gilbert phrases it like a singer, not like a guitarist showing off. He plays a short line, then leaves a gap so the note can breathe, then answers himself, exactly the call-and-response a vocalist would use. Crucially, his bends don't just wander upward for effect: they target chord tones, mostly the major third (G#) and the root (E), so every bend lands on a note your ear was already hoping for. That is the concrete takeaway you can steal today: aim your bends at a note that belongs to the chord underneath, and leave silence between phrases. Do those two things and even three pentatonic notes start to sound composed.

If you want to build lines like this yourself instead of copying his, the same ideas power my guide to writing your own guitar solo, and the pentatonic bending lick drills the exact bend-to-a-target move Gilbert leans on here.

So yes, the fastest guy in the room proved he could shut up and sing, which is deeply annoying for the rest of us who only learned to shut up. If you want the PDF, the Guitar Pro file and the slow-motion version, they live on my Patreon.